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Functional Freeze: but I Keep On Updating It

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  this will be a growing post as I intended to type this in, and comeback to it to reflect on it. I know I could just leave in draft, but posting it will pressure me to update it as soon as I should. log update: 22nd February What if I was wrong about myself all this time? log update: 29th January . On December I kinda decided to map out my 2025. Input a lot of events and activities that I'm going to do to fill in the whole year. You know last year was a bit bland, except for the beginning of 2024. I was "freeze"-ing. I did spend a lot of times with family. I was just lacking, myself. On the map I wrote exactly things I can do alone or with anyone (if anyone interested in joining in).  I saved a lot of  IG reels throughout 2024 with no action plan to do all of them. Oh my god I sounds like my company. Anyways, re-writing it on paper makes it feel legit? It feels real. On January I want to go Build A Bear (which I did!) and want to have dinner with my best friends (yesss w...

People Management: Insignificant Part We Hardly Talk About

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  Does a person that manages the people need to become insensible with feelings? Human has been proven overtime hard to control and respond differently depending on their state of mind. Then, who said it is great idea to have another human- to control another group of human? Wild idea.  Hi there, we are zooming in to 4 years later in which now I'd promoted to become an outlet manager. It has been less than a year as of today, but it felt way too long somehow. There were so many things happened granted I've lost counting since October 2022. As a manager I'm responsible to support my company on 3 things. On tonight post, we need to discuss on 1 of the them- managing people.   Supervising my subordinate basic behaviour is my least favourite commitment. I've always assumed people have good common sense to get their shit together and behave accordingly. Well, I've learn the hard way. Previously I have explained I drove 1 hour to work due to personal reason. In the span o...