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Functional Freeze: is now melting. (End)

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25th Oct 2025- I'm happy to see that this post has officially, melted. 30th August 2024- it will be an ongoing writing as an intention to comeback and reflect on it. I know I could just leave in draft, but posting it will help me to find some clarity in my words. original log date: 30th August Functional Freeze. Can't believe there's a term for a condition I lived in entirely. I cannot describe this in better words. Ergo , I let Google to help you to find out the meaning behind it, while I bed-rotting on same Wild Child scene because I love Poppy's a-hole attitude. Come on, I didn't start it, it wasn't my fault, and if this were America, I would sue. * Cue protagonist.   Additionally, I'm not sure if every situation we live now need to have a very specific term to it. Don't you feel creepy about it? When I saw a reel from a certified therapist (err alledgedly), they claimed there are 2 factors contributing to me feeling stuck. Have  always thought it was...

People Management: Insignificant Part We Hardly Talk About

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  Does a person that manages the people need to become insensible with feelings? Human has been proven overtime hard to control and respond differently depending on their state of mind. Then, who said it is great idea to have another human- to control another group of human? Wild idea.  Hi there, we are zooming in to 4 years later in which now I'd promoted to become an outlet manager. It has been less than a year as of today, but it felt way too long somehow. There were so many things happened granted I've lost counting since October 2022. As a manager I'm responsible to support my company on 3 things. On tonight post, we need to discuss on 1 of the them- managing people.   Supervising my subordinate basic behaviour is my least favourite commitment. I've always assumed people have good common sense to get their shit together and behave accordingly. Well, I've learn the hard way. Previously I have explained I drove 1 hour to work due to personal reason. In the span o...